Sometimes our old stand-by of sitting and holding hands just isn't working, and we have to get creative. Some of us think I'm clever. Some of us don't. |
It's been glorious.
And then tonight I finished my book (thanks to the discovery that I can cook, eat, and give myself a pedicure while reading) (not all at the same time), the kids were in bed, the man was at meetings, and I was looking for a way to kill some time.
Pinterest. Oh, sweet Pinterest, how I've missed thee.
...where I happened upon a pin about parenting, which reminded me of a little problem we were having with one of the children a while back.
And I thought,
Huh. I haven't thought about that in a long time.
How weird that something that seems so huge - something I prayed about and fretted over and felt so desperately unable to work through - is so easily forgotten.
Why didn't anyone tell me that all the seemingly endless toddler phases would, in fact, end? That things have a way of working themselves out?
Why didn't anyone tell me to relax; to laugh things off and know that someday soon I wouldn't even remember the problem that right then seemed so all-encompassing and important...and urgent?
I mean, I'm sure someone told me. In fact, I know they did.
But why didn't they also tell me they were serious? And correct?
Man, I was dumb.
Oh, to know then what I know now.
Or to use what I know now right now.
The latter would be best.
But seems just as likely as the former.
And, because I am feeling annoyed with how judgey I can be, I will skip the rant about parenting advice, tips, and articles. For now.
But you gotta know it's coming. Eventually.
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